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When families go through separation or divorce, the emotional impact on children can be profound. Unfortunately, parents can lose sight of what is important amid emotion and decisions are made about the children’s future without directly involving them.
Child Inclusive Mediation offers a welcomed way to change that.
What Is Child Inclusive Mediation?
Child Inclusive Mediation is a specialised form of family mediation where children - typically aged 10 and above - are given the opportunity to speak privately with a trained mediator. This process allows them to express their thoughts, feelings, and preferences about family changes, such as living arrangements or contact schedules.
Importantly, children are not asked to make decisions. Instead, they are invited to share their views in a safe, neutral environment. With the child’s consent, the mediator then relays these insights to the parents during a separate feedback session.
How does the process work?
- Each parent meets with the mediator to explore whether Child Inclusive Mediation is appropriate. This is called a MIAM.
- If both parents agree, and the child is willing, the mediator prepares the child for the session in an age-appropriate way.
- The child meets the mediator in a child-friendly setting. The conversation is confidential, and only what the child agrees to share is passed on.
- The mediator shares the child’s views with the parents in a separate meeting to help guide future decisions.
Why are the benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation?
- Empowers Children: They feel heard and respected, which can ease emotional stress.
- Improves Parenting Plans: Parents gain valuable insights into what their children truly need and want.
- Reduces Conflict: Focusing on the child’s voice encourages cooperation between parents.
- Supports Emotional Well-being: Children are reassured that their feelings matter and that they’re not responsible for the separation.
- Promotes Better Outcomes: Decisions made with children’s input tend to be more sustainable and child focused.
Final Thought:
Child Inclusive Mediation isn’t about placing pressure on children - it’s about giving them a voice. When handled with care and professionalism, it can transform how families navigate separation, ensuring that children’s needs remain at the heart of every decision.
At George Green Solicitors we work with several skilled mediators who can undertake Child Inclusive Mediation. If you wish to discuss your situation or any issues raised in this blog our family solicitors are based in Wolverhampton, Cradley Heath and Sutton Coldfield and serve clients across the West Midlands. For all new enquiries, please call 01902 328 355 or complete our online enquiry form and a member of our team will respond.